REBOOT: the anti-business school for rebel dads
Six months. Eight men. A radical reimagining of what it means to be a dad today. A journey to rewrite the stories we've inherited about work, family, and identity—dismantling tales that are no longer fit for purpose—and create new ones together.REBOOT is a group coaching program to transform our relationships—with work, technology, family, friends, and ourselves. A chance to break old patterns, build new perspectives, and rethink the way we live and parent, using a framework that understands how "success" and "fulfilment" aren't always the same thing, and providing the tools and techniques to close that gap.
Six months to question everything you thought you knew. A lifetime to live what you discover.
You've built a career. Created a family. You might be on your way up the ladder, or you've climbed the first mountain and are wondering what's next. You're torn between providing for what poet David Whyte called The Three Marriages in our lives: to our partner, to our work, and to ourselves.REBOOT isn't about becoming someone new. It's about finding and creating space for the father, partner and person you want to be, intentionally crafting your best self. It is for the fathers who have everything they were told they should want—but still feel something fundemantally misssing.Over the last three years I've coached dozens of dads to intentionally build lives where fulfilment, family and focus are paramount. I've taken everything I've learned during that time to create REBOOT, a program with community and care at its heart, for men done with performative success and ready for real change.
who is this for?
Warning: monthly dose of REBOOT may cause:
⇨ Radically reimagined relationships with work, family, friends and yourself.⇨ Stepping off the hamster wheel, breaking the cycle of burnout, and building a life where you thrive, not just survive⇨ Systems and processes for making better decisions and living a life aligned with your values.⇨ A confident leap into the unknown, leaving behind a job you hate to do something you love.⇨ Reclaiming and renewing your time, energy and attention, the most valuable resources you have.⇨ Deep meaningful connection with like-minded dads who are all supporting each other.⇨ A renewed sense of what's possible and the opportunity to step into the life you've always wanted.
you are not your job
What the hell is an "anti-business school?"
Traditional business schools teach us how to scale, optimize, and maximize: more money, increased growth, improved efficiency. They don't teach us to question the machine—only how to keep it running and to sacrifice everything at the altar of shareholder value.But what if life's success metrics can't be found on a spreadsheet? What if more isn’t the answer, but better is? What if you finally stopped chasing that promotion or new title, and put that energy into creating the life you want? With more time, more focus, more energy, and the ability to give our full attention and care to the people and things that actually matter?This isn’t about stepping back—it’s about stepping up and designing a life that feels intentional, sustainable, and deeply fulfilling.Think of REBOOT as business school in reverse—a place to unlearn the toxic patterns that got us here. Because 20 years from now, the only people who will remember you worked late are your kids.
you are what you read
Your custom-made REBOOT media diet
The books you read, the films you watch, the podcasts you listen to—very few things will change you more.Each month we'll watch one movie and read one book together—source texts that that deeply connect to the theme of the month, and provide inspiration to think about it from a new perspective.Our "curriculum" will include books like Four Thousand Weeks, The Good Enough Job, Conversations on Love and more; and movies like Perfect Days, Another Round and C'mon C'mon. Discussing these together we'll unlock their secrets and put them into action.
The REBOOT framework
REBOOT emerged from hundreds of hours with fathers attempting to articulate something ineffable—the nagging feeling that success on paper doesn't always feel like success in practice and the quiet voice wondering if there might be another way to do it.The program spends six months, each chapter focusing on a different pillar of modern fatherhood, drawing from psychology, philosophy and culture: Identity, Career, Community, Family, Attention, and Momentum. Together we Reflect, Explore, Build, Observe, Open and Transform to REBOOT our lives.
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MONTHLY INVESTMENT
$500 / £400
This includes
⟳ Your deep dive kick-off with Kevin
⟳ Monthly 1:1 session with Kevin
⟳ Twice monthly group coaching sessions
⟳ 6-Month curriculum including spotlight coaching
⟳ REBOOT Welcome Pack with everything you need to get started
⟳ REBOOT Media Diet, with monthly book and movie club (optional)
⟳ Access to a community for accountability, rich conversation and daily supportREBOOT isn't for everyone. This will be a small group of carefully selected dads committed to doing the work, who will—together—begin to write a different story. Because the gap between the father you want to be and the father you are isn't something you should have to close alone.
"Working with Kevin was a deeply enriching and transformative experience that gave me everything I was looking for. He provided just enough perspective from his own experience to help you feel like you're not the first person to navigate these big life transitions, but also challenges and supports you in building your own path. I was working through big questions about career, family and the balance between the two, and Kevin was a great guide."
— Elliot, Former Head of Product
Your coach
Why Kevin?
I spent 20 years working at the intersection of advertising and technology, including almost a decade at Google in London and San Francisco before realising I was done being defined by work and charting a new course.My holistic approach to coaching understands how the challenges that happen inside work are intrinsically linked to the ones outside it—a tide that men have spent generations swimming against. I am CPCC and PCCC certified, which means I've trained for almost 200 hours and practised for over 500.In addition to coaching, I write The New Fatherhood, a place for modern dads to better understand what fatherhood means today. Esquire Magazine called it one of the best newsletters on the internet, like one big group text with other guys fumbling their way through fatherhood.I do all of this from Barcelona where I live with my wife, two kids, and our basset hound Branston.
"Kevin was instrumental in guiding me towards a more fulfilling and purpose-driven career. He possesses an uncanny ability to delve deep into the core of one's aspirations, and with his insightful questioning and unwavering support, he helped me unearth what truly matters to me and instilled in me the confidence to step out of my comfort zone. Thanks to Kevin I've gained clarity on my goals and aspirations and feel empowered to explore paths that align with my passions and values. I am forever grateful for his guidance in helping me discover my true calling."
— Brian, ex-Amazon
95%
Former clients who would strongly recommend one of Kevin's coaching programs to their friends.
5.7 x
Coaching's return on investment. This is traditionally measured through compensation increases, but REBOOT provides quality of life increases that provide invaluable increases in time, attention, and the ability to show up fully for the people who matter most.
80%
People who improved work performance, relationships, and more effective communication skills through coaching.
Let's get going
The man you want to be isn't waiting at the end of a to-do list. He's in there, waiting for you to let him out.
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